Foreplay is a vital part of sex! You can go down a water slide but it is a lot better when there is actually water and the jets are running! This is why it is important and necessary that you get your girl going before you start to get into the heavier stuff. But Kyle you may say, How do I know what to do when it comes to fingering?! Don't all girls like different things? That is a valid question you just asked! Communication is the key to having great sex if you are not willing to tell each other what you really like then you are never going to get off. If you love it when a girl dips your balls in ice water and then licks peanut butter off them it is something you have to tell her (although if i wouldn't if that was me)! The chances are she is not going to stumble across that on her own. Its not just foreplay as well, it goes for all manner of sexual deeds.
But the case may be that you have just met this amazing girl and you do not have this sort of rapport built up, all you want is one night of animalistic fuckaging and talking about what you like and dislike does not factor into that. Well in that case there are the basics that you can fall back on along with a few out there choices that you can keep in your sex time tool kit. A few of these fingering tips are listed below for your benefit.
The Clitaclysm
A great place to start with is the clit. Before you actually do any fingering a good rub of a bird's clit can often get her well on the way. Just use your index and middle finger and start rubbing it around in a circular motion. You will want to increase the speed over time. If you want to really get at it, move on to all four fingers and move them around fast and hard. If she seems to be really loving it you might as well stick with what works, no need to reinvent the wheel. However too much of a good thing can often get boring so once she has had a fair shake of the sauce bottle move on to the another technique.
One Finger Magic
If the girl you are with likes it rough and hard you can simply use a middle finger and insert it in and out of her pussy very fast. Keep in mind that not all girls like this so you really do have to look at how she is reacting to what you are doing to gauge whether or not your fingering is getting her off. If she likes a slower tempo you can take the speed down and use a thumb to massage her clit or put it in her ass.
Two Hands are better than one
Whoever said guys can not do two things at once? All you have to do for this one is use the fingertips of one hand to rub your bird's clit and then use a couple (or a few depending on what she likes) of fingers from the other hand to work her pussy. Start slowly at first you don't want it to be over quickly. Go in softly only up to the middle of your finger. Once she seems like she is liking it you can start to play around with the tempo and the depth.
The Ass
If you want you can also finger her ass. You can use this as a little bit of fun or as a secondary move along with fingering her pussy. Dont get too caught up with it however because a lot of girls are not really into the whole anal thing so if you do plan on using it lube up and tread the waters lightly. You can also use the one finger anal fingering while fucking when she is getting close to cumming it will be sure to send her over the eadge.